“Dear Mom and Dad, I’m not having kids.” I live in a pro-birth family. Like many Boomers, my parents grew up with a lot of siblings. As a result, I grew up with a lot of cousins. There are seven of us in total (all of us now in or approaching our 30s). Of these […]
It’s easy for single or childfree women to feel weird about loving their careers. In this blog you’ll learn: Why we feel uncomfortable loving our jobs Why you should love your work 3 ways to totally rock your career No matter what job you have, what industry you’re in, or what type of job you’re […]
In Part I (How we Devalue Motherhood in a Pro-Birth Society) I went over the ways we depreciate motherhood, despite living in a world that idolizes babies. In Part II, I’m going to talk about how we can create a culture that genuinely values mothering by making motherhood a choice. There are, of course, direct […]
What does a happily childfree woman have to say about motherhood? First let me say that I’m honestly not against motherhood. I’ve met women who are good mothers, and I would love to see more good mothers like them. My goal in creating The American Spinster has always been to encourage a critical examination of […]
You’ve found yourself in the situation you never wanted to be in. Your partner wants kids. You don’t. Is there any way to save your relationship when only one of you is childfree? What to Do When Your Partner Wants Kids No matter where you are in your relationship, there are a few important rules […]
Most of us know that our planet is in trouble. But with so much wrong in the world, where do we start? Good news, my eco-conscious friends. We can save the planet, empower women, and improve global quality of life all at once. Childfree Millennials have their work cut out for them. The Eco-Conscious Millennial […]
Tired of trying to explain to your friends and family why you’re childfree? Wish you could just sit them down and give them a list that spells it all out? Send them this list of 7 Things Childfree People Wish You Knew. 1. We don’t hate your kids. Okay, some childfree people definitely hate kids. […]
Although some people don’t have kids because they hate them, being childfree doesn’t automatically mean you’re anti-child. If you love kids but don’t want any, you’re not alone. And if you’re tired of hearing “But you love kids! How could you not want to have them?” you’re in the right place. So what’s wrong with […]
The word “spinster” has had a number of different meanings over its long history. Lately, with the rise of solo living and the childfree alternative, it seems to be being redefined once again. What does it mean to be a modern spinster? What Does “Spinster” Mean? Traditionally, a spinster is a never-married woman without biological […]
One of the greatest challenges childfree women and couples face is the feeling of isolation. While it’s true that the internet has helped us connect to other like-minded individuals, that support network could use some bolstering. If you’re looking for information or validation regarding the childfree lifestyle, you’re in luck. I’ve compiled a short list […]